How to Sell with Confidence
March 17th, 2010 by Penny Hagerman
As a salesperson, your personality helps dictate the type of relationship you build with your customers.
If you’re confident in yourself and your abilities, that will come across positively in the way you interact with people. If you lack confidence, prospects may translate that as disinterest or an uncaring attitude on your part—and move on to someone else.
Confidence, as long as it’s not overdone, can also be a powerful sales tool. It conveys knowledge in your product and caring for your customer.
If you struggle to maintain your confidence from day to day, try putting the following pointers to work for you. They’ll help you put your focus in the right place, become more aware of how you’re interacting with clients, and make changes where you need to.
- It’s all about the passion. Are you passionate about your business—or is it just a way to make ends meet? Do you enjoy helping people or are you just in it for the sales? When you’re passionate about your work, it shows the client you’re genuinely interested in them, not just eager to get them to sign on the dotted line.
- Keep everything in balance. Too much confidence makes you appear arrogant and opinionated—and may leave your customers feeling manipulated. This destroys your sales potential long term. Being willing to listen, show care and concern, and dig deep for the right answers, on the other hand, displays confidence in yourself and your abilities—without overdoing it.
- Concentrate on making quality sales, not quick ones. This will help you establish great long-term relationships, which are much more profitable over time. If you can’t help a prospect, being willing to refer that person to someone who can says a lot about the confidence you have in your business—and may lead to future referrals.
- Stay upbeat. Be someone others enjoy being around. Your optimism will rub off, and people will seek you out and openly share when they have problems they think you can help them with. (An upbeat attitude is especially important in networking.)
Do you sell with confidence? Boost your attitude and take these tips to heart. A confident attitude can give you the edge you need in business to succeed.





How do you focus your energy when it comes to converting prospects to customers? Do you give the guy who makes a million excuses the same time, energy and effort as the one who is barely on the fence about doing business with you—or the one who’s ready and willing to listen right now?
If, at that point, you can learn to identify the type of person he or she is, understand their values, read their body language and see how they’re feeling by the expression on their face—no matter what they’re actually saying—you can increase your sales and start making more money.
How do you reach the leads you receive? By phone? Email? Fax?
For any of our readers who are new to the business, the seasoned veterans among us can relate one simple fact: selling insurance isn’t easy.
Whether you’re a captive or an independent agent, becoming successful in this industry takes hard work.
Now that 2010 is in full swing, have you given any thought to your marketing plans? Or have you been putting that off, not sure where to go from here–or how to get started?
