5 Barriers to Success
May 19th, 2010 by Penny Hagerman
When things don’t go the way you planned and you just can’t seem to succeed at your job, or even your personal life, what is your response?
Do you sit around moping and wondering what you’re doing wrong? Make changes to try and improve your results? Or do you degrade yourself for being stupid and unsuccessful?
If this sounds rather familiar, maybe what’s really holding you back is actually YOU?
I read something recently that got the wheels turning in my head on the subject of success. After pondering the subject for a while and examining my own life, I came to this conclusion (which is more common sense than brilliant): Most of us are our own worst enemy.
When things go right and we’re actually proud of our accomplishments, do we focus on them? No. We pretty much move on to the next big thing, expecting to accomplish just as much—or even more—than we did this time.
But that can be a self-defeating cycle.
If any of the following feelings or tendencies are holding you back from reaching success in life, you’re not alone. But guess what? It’s time to do something about it!
- Inadequacy. If you focus on your failures, rather than your successes, you’ll lack the motivation to keep moving forward.
- Lack of goals. I’ve said it before, but when you’re not sure where you’re going, how will you know when (or if) you get there?
- Low expectations. Write down what you expect of yourself and do your best to get there. But don’t become a self-fulfilling prophecy by aiming at nothing.
- Negative support systems. Sometimes people around you can really bring you down. Surround yourself with positive people and you’ll more readily recognize and focus on your successes, rather than your failures.
- Perfectionism. Learn to delegate work, wherever possible, and don’t exhaust yourself trying to do everything right. Give yourself some breathing space, take frequent breaks and relax. Eventually, it will all work out!
Listen, no one does everything perfectly all the time. So start celebrating your small successes, and give yourself a break when things don’t go just right.
A little dose of reality may be just what the doctor ordered to get you back on track again.





If you keep an eye on the news, you may have seen a story recently regarding the professional wrestler known as ”Hulk Hogan.”
If you’ve been struggling to keep your business afloat and need help building a solid book of clients, read on because this is especially for you.
I stumbled across a great group of resources I’ve never encountered before, so I thought I’d share them with you.
Last weekend I had an unnerving experience with a salesman that really made me mad. In fact, by the time I got off the phone with him, I was steaming—and wanted to tell the guy to take a long walk off a short pier!

